Pushbutton Desire

Here is a message are received just the other day.

"Tom I can't get anchoring to work. I'm trying to anchor this girl to fascination and I just can't get it to stick. I can't figure out what I'm doing wrong. Can you help?"

My answer is simple. The problem was that he was trying to anchor a woman as if she were a man. Men have different thought processes than women do. As men we are very simple creatures.

See girl

Want sex

I run into this time and time again where a guy tries to elicit the state of the best sex that the woman has ever had and then try to anchor it to themselves. This is too big of a leap in states to do anyone any good. As a matter of fact it is so far outside of their everyday experiences they will reject the elicitation and most likely reject you as well since I will make them feel uncomfortable.

Most women do not operate like this. There are five individual states that you will have to elicit to unlock their inner desire. This is a combination that opens them up by using the states that they naturally go through in order to lead them in a direction you want to go.

Anchoring is probably the most powerful skill there is. In order to use it properly you have to know the combinations of states people need to go through in order to get to where you want them to be.

The five most common states that a woman needs before she feels desire are these.

Comfort. This is the kind of comfort that you feel when you're with somebody and can just be yourself.

Connection. This is not a deep sexual connection this is the kind of connection you have between two people who really understand each other.

Curiosity. This is the kind I curiosity you have had a little taste but you just want to know more.

Safety. At this point it's the kind of safety where someone can open up expose who they are without fear of being judged or humiliated.

Desire. Again this is not a sexual desire is the desire for them to become closer to you.

In this way you are adjusting the filter that she sees you through. If you lead a woman from these five states everything else comes after words is completely natural.

If you anchor these five states you'll always have pushbutton desire any time you want.

That means that after you have elicit all of the states and set an anchor for them that when you set up the next meeting you fire all of those anchors off at the same time. Believe me if you do that you'll never have to worry about whether or not they show up for the second meeting.

This is how the Advanced Anchoring and other Sneaky Stuff can benefit you. You learn how to make about the anchors and how to elicit these kinds of states in people conversationally. You set these anchors on a level that are so subtle that it is never noticed because you're operating inside of their normal levels. Then you turned them into sliding anchors so that you can accelerate those states anytime you want.

Just imagine the possibilities.

These DVDs are available through Straightforward now.

Have fun

Tom