how to write a nlp letter to persuade her to...

[sony]

            hi folks

i really dont know how to fix all that i mean to get that girl i love as girlfriend im in a dificult seduction scenario where i cant apply
nlp as i wanted,the issue is that girl works as waitress and i know her in her working place as i frecuent a lot that place the things are dificult before i spoke to her and she was really nice with me of course when i spoken with her was normaly for very short times one minute maybe 2 in a special day i spoke the record time of 20 minutes but know she dont speaks with me more
the funny think is that i dont made or say her nothing bad sadently one day she was very friendly and worm with me and an hour later i whent to speak with her and she was totaly diferent with me she ignores me and whent to an other place.i also deduse that is very posible that the managers of that place sayd her something as they are very hard its a casino.
im already 5 mounth very much in love of her and four mouth ago i started to study a lot of books about nlp and hypnosis but i see that now i cant use it till i can see her out of that place,i had study nlp persuation influence and nlp seduction,when i was spaking that day for 20 minutes her body language was very open her gaze was intense but not agresive eye contact over 80 porcent delated pupiles shiny eyes her body was turn to my she always come closer to me almout taching me with her body her palms where open she was smiling al the time specialy in the most flirting moments she was showing uper line of tith she acepted whel the flirting and the kinestethics i made her in the for arms and shoulders and even more things.
she always was nice with me so now i dont know how to fix al that i want to see her out of that casino,the other problem is that she has a boyfriend working and controling her in the same casino he is a very agrasive and dominant guy many people that work there say to me that he is very wild and agresive and all the people are afraid of that guy.
the girl knows that im in love with her becose as im very sad becose that situation i tell the true that i love her to my family so my mother speaks some times with her and she speaks with my mam so just 3 days ago my mam sayd to her directly that im very in love with her allready long time my mam sayd that her reation was great she was listening very interesing of course my mom also knows some nlp she was very friedly and in that moment that my mom sayd to her im in love with her she smiled very much and was happy she dont mentionated the boyfriend at all and she sayd that god he is very a nice locking and simpatic and educated guy and she sayd i will lock for him latter to speak to him.so latter she came to an other area of that casino where she is less controlated locking for me but i was with my mam and a friend so she come very ner to me and sad hello to me she smiled me and locked me with very good eyes but somebody allready call her and she whent.the next day i whent to the casino and when she wakked agains me i sayd her hello in to ocasions and she ignored me again,so now
im thinking to give her a card for the next time but i will like to write that card that way to persuade her to see me out of the casino i will like to invite her to dinner so i can use my nlp to seduce her of course if she mentionate the boyfriend i will use bf destroyer,so if antbody of you guys now how i must write that card exactly to make her interesed to see me out of the casino tho persuade her to give me a oportunity and that her mind realize that i will be great boyfriend for her i will be very happy ,i wanted to write her the card from me but as i was writing i thout maybe im not write it the corect way so better to ask nlp masters ass i want to hit a goal with that card she her out of there not tell her my feelings .

  thankes for your time even i you know a little think just to make that situation better i will be much quiter.

[masterseducer9]

Read this first:

Optimus:  Why is coffee-sitting at a cafe- AFC??  I don't get it.  I thought
it was the frame that determined whether or not something was AFC.  Taking a
girl on a date and buying her dinner and taking her to a movie and hoping
"Please like me, like me, I'll do whatever it takes to make you like me,
I'll buy you dinner, roses.....like me..."  That's AFC.  Because you're
trying to win her approval.  She has the power.  And, she gets to qualify
you.  But if YOU are qualifying HER, and you don't give a flying fuck
whether or not she likes you, if she does, fine, great for the both of you,
if not, oh well, HER LOSS.  As long as the proper frame has been set, why
should it matter where you go?  As long as it doesn't trigger the
traditional dating mechanisms? Dinner, flowers, movies, etc.

If you're so concerned about the details of writing a simple card, it makes
me wonder what would/will be the attitude when you wanna use NLP
patterns on her.

You gotta:

FIRST: Drop your AFC attitude of wanting her so much. When she is the prize, she gets all the power.
SECOND: You simple write a note that you think she is an interesting person and that you and her have things
in common which she hasn't realized.

Simple as that.

Or you can get caught up with analysis paraylis for one girl out of 3 billion others on the planet who
are 10x more attractive and nicer inside than the current one.

THAT'S WHAT YOU ATTITUDE SHOULD BE LIKE. And not like she's something that you absolutely
must get. As soon as you think that way -- you've ALREADY lost the whole seduction game.

You can know persuasion and NLP all you want, but if your attitude and body language
is telling her that you're obviously sooooo attracted to her -- then she's gonna play hard to get.

And as soon as she does this -- she looses all interest in you no matter how many NLP patterns you recite to her.


Mate -- it's not about the words. it's about your presentation.

Your words side is 10/10. But your attitude of a expert seducer sucks totally.

The only way you can improve it is by interacting with woman (8's, 9's and 10s) on a
daily bases.

So MAKE A PLAN REALLY FAST TO tune up your attitude of getting woman attracted to you.




-D

[soccer9]

In the letter, PACE her reality that it's a weird way to initiate communication with someone.

Eg:

"Hey GIRL,

Ok, I know this is a weird way of communicating with you, but..."



From then on you simply state that you wanna meet up with her becuase you want to
find out if there's more to her than her looks.

That's what Ross J. does.

[puk]

The fact that she has a boyfriend is TOTALLY irrelevant.

In fact, you don't give a rats ass if she has 5 boyfriends beacuse
you're better than all of them.

At least, that's what you're belief should be at all times.

You should be happy that she has a boyfriend becuase her boyfriend
will reveal to you everything you need to know to attract her to you.

How?

She is attracted to her boyfirend because he has certain qualities, attitudes and characteristics.

For example he is aggressive.

So you simply be aggressive around her.

Yes. That means you should be flexible in role modelling different personalities.



And lastly remember -- telling her recited stories (once she's sitting down with you at a table)
is the best way to hypnotise her and make her horny.

[astounding]

Yes I agree.

Pacing her current thoughts (what's she's thinking of you or may
be thinking of you) is your most powerful asset as of your present situation.

Normally I would NEVER recommend telling or presupposing to a girl that
you like her, with your present case is an exception.

since she already knows you're attracted to her at some level, you can use
this to your huge advantage by pacing her reality about you by saying something like:

"I know you probably think that I'm attracted to you...."

-A

[sony]

thankes for the advices

i tough a other new thing,now that she knows im atracted to her how will be that i speak with many girls in front of her so she can see how great time have the girls speaking with me i noticed that many girl that work also with her look me a lot but i dont like them i mean im not atracted.
how will be if in least of that card i go directly to her and when she dont says to me hallo i ask her what happen to her why she dont speaks to me,but how i must say that to dont make her angry and when i can speak again to her how i must restart conversation with her ,how i must act now she knows the true i love her tell me what ever i want to reach my goal have her as girlfriend so if i nedd to play dirty i will i think i will act like i fell atracted to some other girls in that place.

  thankes to all of you guys.

[greenland]

Hey sony,

Good idea from you indeed. Using jealousy on the girl that already knows you like her is probably
your most powerful weapon.

Damn! You're a GENIUS!!! I just got tons of ideas that I'm gonna do when I sarge.

==

Yes. Usually the girls you don't like are attracted to you. As soon as you show interest then her
attraction decreases towards you.

Kinda unfair hey!

Like I remember one night when I was picking up chicks in a bar with another wing...

He approached a whole group of girls (they were tourists). There was about 9 girls.

While I strategically distracted the 2 guys that were with them as they were the obstacles.

The girls were trying to get my attention to meet me as I was truly having fun with the guys. LOL!


But I purposefully didn't even pay attention to them or smile. This obviously kept their attraction towards
me strong.

But then I made one BIG mistake (and you'll learn from this)...


I voluntarily decided to meet each one of them, showing obvious interest towards all the girls.

As soon as I shook the last girls hand, I instantly realized that their physiology changed and the
attraction level towards me literally disappeared.


So what can you learn from this?...

NEVER LET YOUR GIRL KNOW WHAT YOU'RE ATTRACTED TO HER.

Always have her wondering and curious.

===



Anyway, back to your post....


Yes. Use the power of jealousy in front of your target to amplify her attraction.

but how i must say that to dont make her angry

You don't even ask her questions that represent that you're insecure and you're concerned about
what she thinks of you.

SO DO NOT ASK HER QUESTIONS WHY SHE'S SUDDENLY NOT TALKING TO YOU.

Instead...

Tease her by saying something like: "What's the matter? Speechless? Look, I totally understand
how it is when you're with a hot guy that you find totally, completely irresistible. You suddenly
find yourself with loss of words. But it's ok! It'll pass over time. HOPEFULLY!"

how i must restart conversation with her

You restart conversations with her with a brand new attitude each time.

Yes. You restart as if you're a new guy she's never met before.

But at the same time use something from last time you saw her to mention and
therefore start a conversation with that.

Also use "I just noticed you wearing this. What's the story behind it?".

It's absolutely AWESOME that you can pick anything that a girl is wearing and
comment on it.

It will start a fun conversation 90% of the time.

Then ofcourse tease her how she stole her necklace or bought it second hand. And how for that
reason you'll divorce her.

TEASE, TEASE, TEASE, TEASE, TEASE, TEASE, TEASE, TEASE, TEASE, TEASE!!!!!

Be like the little boy in primary school.

Remember how little boys use to tease girls, pull their hair, make fun of them?

WELL -- that works 1000000000000x times better in our ages. (IE: 20s, 30s+).



I hope this helped you out.


-G

[Count Duckula]

These are awesome tools.