Whats up guys,
some girls posted this on her myspace post,
A thing about why do nice guy finish last?
Now some Ex-nice guy here would understand, but guy out there is having a emotional rage and brake down because of this post,
the thing is I used do most of these and still have alots of these behaviors.
Its funny, now that i look at it, guy having a fit.. but In a way I do understand themWhy nice guy finish last.
To every guy that REGRETS HURTING HER.
To every guy who KNOWS WHICH GIRL HE WANTS.
To every guy that's said, "Sex can wait."
To every guy that's said, "YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL."
To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town to see her.
To every guy that gives FLOWERS AND A CARD WHEN SHE IS SICK.
To every guy who has GIVEN HER FLOWERS JUST BECAUSE.
To every guy that said he would die for her.
To every guy that really would.
To every guy that DID WHAT SHE WANTED TO DO(or at least tried).
To every guy that cried in front of her.
To every guy that SHE CRIED IN FRONT OF.
To every guy that HOLDS HANDS WITH HER.
To every guy that KISSES HER WITH MEANING.
To every guy that HUGS HER WHEN SHE'S SAD.
To every guy that HUGS HER FOR NO REASON AT ALL.
To every guy who GAVE THEIR JACKET UP.
To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.
To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to be able to see her for ten minutes.
To every guy that GAVE HIS SEAT UP.
To every guy that JUST WANTS TO CUDDLE.
To every guy that REASSURED HER THAT SHE WAS BEAUTIFUL NO MATTER WHAT.
To every guy who TOLD HIS SECRETS TO HER.
To every guy that TRIED to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.
To every guy that THOUGHT MAYBE THIS COULD BE THE ONE.
To every guy that BELIEVED IN HER DREAMS.
To every guy that WOULD HAVE DONE ANYTHING SO SHE COULD ACHIEVE THEM (and did).
To every guy that NEVER laughed at her when she told him her dreams.
To every guy that WALKED HER TO HER CAR.
To every guy that WASN'T JUST TRYING TO GET LAID.
To every guy that ACTUALLY LISTENED.
To every guy that gave his heart only to have it shoved back in his face (SORRY).
TO EVERY GUY THAT PRAYS THAT SHE IS HAPPY EVEN IF YOU ARE NOT WITH HER.
To every guy who says i I LOVE YOU and really means it...
To every guy who calls her but has nothing to say but stays on the phone just to listen to her...
To every guy that would let her call him a pet name atleast once in front of his freinds....
To every guy that doesnt act different around his friends...
To every guy that is the first one to bring up there future togther(kids,marrige)....
To every guy that would hold/kiss her in the rain bcuz he knows she likes it....and after would take her inside and warm her up...
To every guy that would tell her things that he's never told anyone before....just bcuz he really trusts her...
This one is for you...
Not all girls appreciate nice guys. There's not many left out there....
If you are a nice guy repost this: " every nice guy finishes last. "
If you are a girl that thinks every guy should try to encompass even a few of these repost this: " T0 THE NiCE GUYS
Ok, so I posted these on my own bulliten and there are some response I've got back:Reply 1. female 21
Why do nice guys finish last? I believe that in most cases it is because the bad guys don't care what they do or who they hurt to get where they are going...the nice guys do, they do care and because of it they finish last. It is a horrible thing but sometimes to finish first you have to be ruthless...nice guys aren't ruthless.
Reply 2. female 26
i'm not a guy..like one of the guy's but still a girl..honestly i don't understand chics even though i am one. I have dated chics one of them for over a year off and on..they are very confussing creatures...we don't know what we want..when we have what we think we want it's suddenly not what we want. there is no middle in chic world..sorry to say...they don't even know what it is. They stay confused with our emotions..i hate it but it is true. Every woman is bi-polar...buy her a theropist and lots of meds. They want the guy other guy's are scared of but yet the guy she would never be scared of. The usta be bad boy turned into bad boy in love. Chics may deny it but chics dig rednecks...yes i know it's gettin bad but for some reason they just likes some rednecks. Alot of chics like a man who takes control of her..like dominating..it makes her feel more wanted or something. They like it when a man gets all jelous like..yes alot of chics like drama..i don't know why but some just can't live without it. By the way i'm not focused on me..i'm a chic and have chic friends and this is what i see. There are good grateful ones out there just they don't come a dime a dozen. All's i can say is woman in their late 20's and up with kids been divorced and making it on their own know what they want more and more grateful for a good man cause they have been through rough times and have ppl (kids) depending on them so they tend to focus more on life and not all that stupid bullshit.
Reply 3. female 24
mmm wondering if I will have room to put an idea down? I love my family.Typical blue collar, working family, loving and vfull of morals. Morals that are different to everyone in the family-but filled with common respect none the less. As a woman, and maybe nature-I have flocked to men that are somewhat need of attention. Attention lacking from their youth to adulthood...I enjoy giving them comfort and a mothers touch-and being the voice of reason. My man has had a rough life, decifering what was turth and what was a lie, living with the mental abuse of a women because he had always flocked towards women of his own mothers charachteristics. I offered him something else, a realisitic loving family that was typical, they have problems, but they use their voice, they had worries, and stressors-we stressed them in manners that were respectful and understanding...I taught him the meaning of love and how to treat a loved one, and I know-that in doing so our bond as lovers and soulmates has grown and has kept many more negetive things from happening than that of what has happened, and believe me,things have happened! I love him, I don't need constant attention, or good clothing, fancy this tahat and the other-I have him. And in the end, that is what is needed-a continuation of life through postive enforcement and knowing- "Hey I made him feel real love"
Reply 4 female 21
well.. i must say.. i like nice guy's..and i'm dating one for 8 months.. and know what?.. i LOVE him!.. soo .. i never enjoyed companie of a "bad boy".. so i guess not all the women love bad boys.. cause u may have fun with them..but i can tell you..if i wanna marry..i'll choose a nice guy!
Reply 5 female 24
outlook on the "nice guys", lots of girls go for the nice guys. Most "bad boys" are just nice guys in disguise. And the "let me do everything for you" version of the nice guy usually end up getting the let's be friends line because 90% of the guys like that I have ever know have had serious issuses. Those are the guys that ending up stalking you or breaking into your apartment at 2am.
These below are from relpys from malesReply 1 male 37
You hit the nail on the head brother!!! I never understood why I got SO much sh*t thrown in my face. I've actually had a fight break out( more than once...) for bringing home flowers-just because. I've opened more doors than I care to remember, given up my coat more times than I've worn it, and always, ALWAYS made sure she had something to eat before I sat down. Massages, foot rubs, you name it just because I enjoyed the comforted, relaxed look on her face. I touched-up photos of her, to remove pimples, scars, and stretch marks from giving birth, all so she could she the beautiful woman that I saw in her. Even now, my love for her flows through my veins as steady as the blood I have offered to give for her. So why, why did I end up so broken hearted? That is one question that she will never answer with any more detail other than "I am so sorry...". I have spent more hours crying hysterically than I care to count, more days crying myself to sleep wondering what went wrong, or how to fix it, then most other men would even consider. And all I get is "If I could take all your pain away, I would..." The truth is, she can. And she knows she it. I am 37 yrs old, I have been best friends with my wife since we were six, dated four yrs in school, got back together a week after I graduated college, and were married 2 yrs later. That marriage lasted 16 yrs, only to end in November, so her boyfriend could move in, one that she had never even met in person. Yes, that's right....she met him on the internet, fell in love, and left our life behind for a chance with a total stranger. He moved in from another state, while I was sitting in a court room having a judge sign our divorce papers. Our divorce took three and a half weeks, start to finish, that relationship lasted two... She has since moved on to another man she met on the internet, and travels out of state every weekend to go see him, while I spend the weekends at 'her' house, three times a day, to take care of the dogs so she doesn't have to board them. Nice guy?
You're damn right. Finish last?
Absolutely, every time. If I had even an ounce of life left in my heart, I would use it to become a "Badboy", because as your post states.....That's what women want. Call me old school, but I was raised that way, to honor and respect woman, not to treat them like a play toy. I cannot change my ways, so I am forever 'cursed' with being "...just a nice guy..."
Reply 2 male. male 42
What A Can Of Worms You Opened, I Consider Myself The Same As The Guy You Dicribed. I Have Done All Them Things And More.It Seems The More You Do The Less Your Liked. That Is ot Just With Women It Is Everything.I Am The Only One That Cares For My Elderly Parents Out Of 5 Children But I Am The Last To Get Noticed, I Cared For My Wife Of 18 Years.When Her Mom Left Her.At 16. Still Mom Comes First. I Dunno. I Kinda Understand Why Some People Are Jerks.
It doesn’t mean don't be a nice guy, do it if you feel like it... only if you want it but there has to be no motives behind it, never, ever ever even think about it, anything or any kind in return, do above (nice guy behavior) only if your available to do that.
No#1 rule in dating and relationship is being yourself, your true self.
tell chicks how you feel, if you don't like it, the tell then but remember to keep your Kools 
don't have a fit be cool and smooth and there is such thing called the shit test.
There must be a Balance, do it only if you feel like it, be generous but never sacrifice, help and protect but don't do their for them... your not a beta or worst become a slave.
