A hot girl is there, surrounded by her friends. She has put
on this bitch act. But is she really a bitch? Unlikely. All
my girlfriends were wonderful human beings. Beautiful
people have it easier because they are beautiful and often
times have better upbringings because of it.
But – she needs to have a standard when all these loser
guys approach her. So her values are very honed and
understood. When a man walks up and says, "Can I buy you a
beer” this will annoy her. While the guy thinks he's doing
something nice for her, she gets this constantly and is
desensitized to it. You are the eighth guy today!
So she is very good at brushing all these guys off. She has
to be... she isn't going to sleep with all of them! So she
may say ‘no,’ act annoyed, or use some other shielding
mechanism, and then the poor guy thinks she's a bitch and
he walks off angry and feeling like a failure. And that
seems to work.
Sometimes when the girl is particularly feeling powerful
(like when she’s in a club) she will accept the beer and
then flake the guy off. Hey, the guys are stupid enough to
buy her one; she might as well take it.
When she accepts a beer from you, the girl is really
saying, "I don't know you and I don't care about you. You
are just another one of those typical guys and since I
don't respect you, I’ll take the beer from you before I
snub you.”
Since hot girls are so good at snubbing your approach,
snubbing them is important. You cannot insult them, because
they are accustomed to all the hurt guys insulting them
("You are nothing but a bitch!") so this rolls off their
back like water off a muskrats ass.
How do you snub them without insulting them? Well, let's
say she has long nails, which are most likely fake.
Now why do women dress so fine if they don't want the
attention? Sometimes they love the feeling of control. They
are in a club with friends and they want to be the leader
of their social circle and get all the attention. The guys
come and buy drinks for them and she gets a kick out of
knocking the guys down.
It’s all in a days play. So, she is wearing fake nails to
look even better! Most guys will say, "Wow you are so
beautiful!" Boring, typical and in her mind by now, true
(after years of this.)
Imagine now, a guy comes along and says "Nice nails. Are
they real?" She will have to concede, "No, acrylic." And he
says (like he didn't notice it was a put down), "Oh.
(pause) well I guess they still look good." Then he turns
his back to her.
What does this do to her? Well, he didn't treat her like
shit and insult her. Instead, he complimented her, but the
result was to target her insecurity. She thinks, "I’m hot
I’m beautiful” – (especially in her current emotional state
of control) – “but I didn't win this guy over. I’m so good
at this… I’ll just fix that little smear on my image that
he has of me."
Then you continue to show disinterest in her looks as you
give her a neutral topic like the Elvis bit.
During this time, her intention is to get you to become
like all the other guys so she can feel in control and snub
you. Then you give her another Neg like this: "Is that a
hair piece? Well, it’s neat... what do you call this
hairstyle? The waffle?" Smile and look at her to show her
you are sincerely being funny and not insulting. You are
pleasant but disinterested in her beauty.
This will intrigue her because she knows guys. And this
isn't normal. You must have really high taste, or be used
to girls, or be married or something.
These questions make her curious. So this keeps happening
and is known as flirting. She gives you little negs and
these tests are qualifiers. You pass them by negging her
back. After all, you aren't like the others showing
interest. But... why not?
To get control again, she says, "Will you buy me a drink?"
Notice how she is trying to get you now! But, she only
wants to sucker you in enough so she can snub you.
That is all she is about – this strategy is all she knows
and it's not working on you so she is trying to do damage
control on the situation. But at the same time she doesn't
quite understand why you don’t think she’s “all that.”
After all, her nails are fake.
You say, "Ah, that's so funny ... your nose wiggles when
you speak......” – (pointing and being cute) – “look there
it goes again ... it’s so... quaint ... hheeeee look."
She'll say, "Ahh, stoppp!" *blush*. Now she is
self-conscious and this is where you want her.
You have, with three negs, successfully created interest
(curiosity) and removed her from her pedestal (removed her
protection shield.) You were humorous, you had a smile, you
dress well, you are confident and everything she would want
in a man.
You didn't take her shit. Oh… and when she asked you for a
beer, you said, "No. I don't buy girls drinks. But you can
buy me one.” You are qualifying her now. If she buys you a
beer, this is symbolic of her respect for you.
If not, you say, "Pleasure meeting you" [not sarcastically]
and turn your back to her again. Don’t walk away, just turn
your back. You are negging her again just when she thought
she was negging you. You are teasing each other. It’s
flirting – this is all textbook psychology.
A neg is a qualifier. The girl is failing to meet your high
expectations. It's not an insult, just a judgment call on
your part. You’re not even trying to make her feel bad (so
it seems.)
It’s the same as if you pulled out a tissue and blew your
nose. There’s nothing insulting about blowing your nose.
You haven’t explicitly rejected her. But at the same time,
she will sincerely believe that you aren’t trying to
impress her. This creates curiosity and makes you a
challenge.
The better looking the girl, the more aggressive you must
be with using negs. A 10 can get three negs up front, while
an 8 gets only one or two over a longer time. You can go
overboard if she thinks you are better than her (which
happens more often that you’d think.)
You can drop the self-esteem right out from under her, just
like most 10s do to guys, and this isn't good. You have to
get as close to the breaking point as you can without
crossing the line.
Once you have gotten her right there, you can start
appreciating things about her (not her looks.) There is a
mutual respect now – something most guys never get from the
girl.
This is how you remove a protection shield. Three negs
ought to do it within two of three minutes of neutral chat.
Once it is removed, you can, from a place of mutual
respect, seduce her.
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