johnchap
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« Reply #2 on: November 09, 2008, 11:49:06 AM » |
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you're absolutely right. You don't want to be too forward at first. After all, you do not know if she is into you, right? So,
What do you do? How can you find out if she is interested or not?
I'm sure there are many ways; various methods for discovering if a girl is attracted to you, but I'd much rather create attraction!
Im sure if you look around this cool, seduction info-packed forum, you'll mind many tips on building generating attraction so look around.
Here's one method I use to generate attraction from a girl, and that I think could be used in any situation. including yours:
I'm aggressive, but respectful. I act as if she were already interested in me. I assume it. When she FEELS my personality; this energy that I am projecting, she becomes attracted. It's amazing really. I lead with my emotions (a confidence, positive, and playful attitude) and she just follows..unware, really, of what she is doing.
You said you guys already went out. This is means she has already approved you. I think she could already be attracted so being assertive with her, I think, could work.
If this advice is not what you were looking for, then I do apologize and wish I could help you with an outer-game technique such as a routine or specific action to take, but I firmly believe that success with women (and anything else for that matter) comes from within; that if we have the proven confidence, attitudes, and mindsets that lead to success with women, then every else will fall into place (what to do, and not do; what to say and not say; how to act and not act; what decisions to make ... pursue her or let her go and move on etc)....
build that aspect of your game, and you will succeed with women beyond levels which not even you can imagine!
wishing you success with women
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