Hello,
I'm male, 21, and haven't properly flirted with any girl for the last - I don't know - almost a year now.
The main reason is that my aura and persona have somewhat degenerated "below my standard potential" due to a physical "disability" I was inflicted in an accident.
I myself don't know to which extent it would be regarded as a "disability" because it isn't even visible, i.e. I can walk and talk in an apparently normal manner, but I cannot do many things that - let's say - a woman would expect from a man.
I'm pretty sad and starting to realize that the worst might happen, that I might never have a girlfriend again, never marry or have children, after what happened to me. I could potentially cope with it, I could go and simply not care about all this and perhaps release all distress with a sex worker.
But I'm here to ask your advice, and see whether you might have some last resort ideas for me to return competitive.
I think that my physical appearance and non-verbal communication (body language) have suffered most, since I cannot do many things that are standard in routine courtship and when
approaching a girl:
My posture is forced to an uncomfortable and un-seductive view, i.e. the shoulders are sagging down- and forward, and my head is also somewhat stiff (not fluid) due to the chronic pain I have in the nape.
I cannot turn torso too much, i.e. when I face a person I must face her straight without turning my neck or torso. Almost like a robot.
Due to the chronic pain I also often do certain movements with my fingers that might look a bit weird (like opening and closing fist occasionally, massaging my fingers, etc.)...
Finally, I cannot carry anything nor do anything with force, neither with my hands nor with my legs.
I cannot lift anything at all and trust me this is probably the greatest burden since when I have to carry something for myself, my friends have to do it. I don't think any girl would find it amusing to hold the door open
for me 
Well, this is more or less my situation.
I have no confidence problems with girls, and was quite independent at flirting and seducing girls before my accident; however, I feel pretty "inferior" with regards to my current physical condition.
I mean
if you were a woman and had to chose between a man who can do all work for you, and a stiff man who can't even help you carry something, who can't do any sports or physical activity... who would you choose?Basically, I'm
"un-fit" in the real sense of the word. And while looking at a beautiful girl I'm interested in, my mind quickly reminds me of my condition and I think that there's no point even trying to think about her. That I would probably do
her and the entire gene pool a favor by just letting her be...
*sigh*
Any ideas...?
